“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always...
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Challenge of Time Management
“Honest scales and balances belong to the Lord; all the weights in the bag are of His making.” Proverbs 16:11 If you have not heard me talk about my wife, please say fantastic. Back in 2005, we decided that I would change professions. I went from a stable but busy job...
Ways to Show Your Wife You Love Her
estimated read time: 3.5min Colossians 3:14: "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." There are many ways to show your wife you love her. We suggest starting at the heart and soul of any family, the love between...
What Do You Do
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” Ephesians 5:25 NIV Put any two men together in a room; eventually, small talk will start. When it does, with nearly 100 percent certainty, I can say that one of them will...
1 Essential Piece of Advice For Early Marriage
I became a father on June 26, 1993, when our oldest daughter was born. At every wedding I have attended since that day, I have waited to hear a preacher ask, “Who gives this bride?” It is my favorite part of most weddings. I cherish the relationship I have been...
A Relationship With God Is What You Were Made For
I am not sure about you, but just reading the scripture below, I can honestly confess here today that I often fail at love! There is, however, some good news. Once you understand the source of real, genuine, unconditional love, you will realize that the LOVE the...
Why Perspective Is Important For Your Marriage
Do you ever have what people like to call tunnel vision? It's the human condition. We all struggle with this, but we need to consider why perspective is important our lives, especially for our marriages. It can change a lot. "Have you eyes of flesh? Do you see as man...
How to Please Your Wife In A Sacrificial Way
As husbands, we are all about pleasing our wives. Sometimes, this can be framed as the center of our existence. We are told to live to serve our wives. Unfortunately, our mindsets can sometimes drift towards the self. Sometimes it's difficult to know how to please...
3 Tips on How to Understand Your Wife
He was sitting on the couch, angry, trying desperately to communicate with his wife. They had never really learned how to fight well. Neither did they communicate well during tense situations. They didn't even remember what they were fighting about, but they could not...
Is Pornography Destroying Your Marriage? The Answer is Yes
Is pornography destroying your marriage? The answer is quite simply, yes. It may not be today but it will, eventually once exposed. "In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his...
My Wife is Going Through Menopause – Here’s What To Do
Men…sit down…buckle-up…strap-in or do whatever you can to brace yourself. In true Uncommen form, we touch on topics that make many uncomfortable. Today we are talking about Menopause! My wife is going through menopause and here's what I learned. Genesis 18: 11 — "Now...
How to Work on Your Marriage
How to work on your marriage... "You Get Out What You Put In" just needed a little pizzaz, so we made up a word - YGOWUPI. I've seen women spend hundreds of dollars on a shopping spree and jump up and down, trying to get their husband's attention. The man doesn't even...