But someone will say, “You have faith: I have deeds. Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds. “ James 2:18 . Brotherly Love I mentioned that I have not lived around one of my siblings since 1985 when I left Kansas City. That all...
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Brothers and Envy
I long for deeper and closer friendships in my life, and I have been grateful for the men who have come into my world. But I often struggle with the deep envy of the same men I would want as a closer brother. I am both drawn to them and their gifts, yet, I am jealous...
Love Your Wife
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her…However, each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself.” Ephesians 5:25 & 33. Love your wife involves showing her love and affection in a way that is meaningful to...
3 Qualities of a Provider
I am a Judge’s son. Growing up, I was the cute little blond-haired kid campaigning on your doorstep and stuttering in a high voice, “Hi. P-P-Please vote for my Dad.” I was so proud to be my father’s son. To this day, I take full credit for my Dad getting elected all...
Criticism
Matthew 7 1-5 "Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own...
Leadership Traits
A man does not call a line crooked unless he has some idea of a straight line - CS Lewis. My cousin called me one night and asked a theological question. He had heard someone say something about Jesus and wanted me to tell him if it was true or not. I said, Let’s go...
Mistaken Identity
“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall fully know, even as I am fully known.” 1 Corinthians 13:12 NIV It’s my wife’s birthday today. I am in the middle of nowhere, sitting in a hotel thinking...
What Do You Do
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” Ephesians 5:25 NIV Put any two men together in a room; eventually, small talk will start. When it does, with nearly 100 percent certainty, I can say that one of them will...
How to Enjoy Parenting At Every Stage
Are you a parent? Wanting to be one? Well, hear it from a seasoned father. Enjoy every moment, including the painful ones. How to enjoy parenting? Let's consider that. “Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much...
When Career Aspirations Overtake Husband Duties
Career aspirations and husband duties. Balance. That's a hard concept. We are taught to work hard. My example started early with both parents. A truck driver and a school librarian didn't make much. Isaiah 43:19 — "Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth,...
God, Family, Career — Designating Faithful Priorities
Daddy, can you play dinosaurs with me? My oldest son asks me as I’m running out the door for my first appointment of the day. His big blue eyes shine with hope as he anticipates me sitting down and grabbing the triceratops. I’m sorry buddy, daddy has to go to work but...
Discovering Your Assignment For Life
Discovering your assignment? Today, 43% say they never wonder if they would go to heaven when they die. 51% say a personal invitation from a friend or neighbor from the church would be effective in getting them to visit. "And I sought for a man among them who should...