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Unmasking Your True Identity

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BECOME A BETTER

HUSBAND, DAD, AND LEADER.

Halloween has always been a magical time. As children, we eagerly anticipated that we could transform into our favorite characters, go door-to-door, and chant the age-old phrase, “Trick or treat?” But as adults, this holiday can serve as a profound metaphor for our spiritual journey, prompting us to ask: Who am I beneath my everyday mask? What is my true identity?

True Identity

The Bible, in Ephesians 2:10, beautifully articulates our purpose: “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” This verse isn’t just about our actions but our very essence. It reminds us that our identity is intricately woven into God’s grand design.

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to lose sight of our true identity. Are you the person you aspired to be? Are you fulfilling the roles of a husband, father, or leader as you had envisioned? Proverbs 27:17 emphasizes the importance of relationships in our self-discovery: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Engaging in heartfelt conversations with loved ones can provide invaluable insights.

The Mighty Ducks movie series offers a compelling narrative about identity. Characters, when faced with challenges, are reminded of their potential with a simple phrase, “So be that man.” The Bible echoes this sentiment in 1 Corinthians 16:13, urging us to “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.” Both sources inspire us to embrace our true selves, especially when we feel lost.

Beyond Costumes

While Halloween allows us to adopt different personas, it’s the days that follow that truly matter. Romans 12:2 advises, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This transformation is a call to align ourselves with Christ’s teachings and to live authentically, shedding any masks we wear in our daily lives.

Our spiritual journey towards self-discovery and alignment with Christ is enriched when shared. Galatians 6:2 emphasizes communal support: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Your UNCOMMEN community stands ready to support, guide, and walk alongside you. Together, you can strive to embody Christ’s teachings, starting this Halloween.

Guiding others not only impacts their lives but also deepens our understanding of ourselves and God’s word. Titus 2:7-8 highlights the importance of setting a positive example: “In everything set them an example by doing what is good.” Through mentorship, both the guide and the seeker can experience profound spiritual growth.

Amidst life’s challenges, it’s crucial to regularly check our spiritual compass. Psalm 139:14 is a beautiful reminder: “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” By revisiting questions of identity and purpose, we can realign ourselves with God’s vision for us.

The Deeper Meaning of Masks

Throughout history, masks have held significant cultural and spiritual importance. They’ve been used in ceremonies, for protection, and as a form of expression. On Halloween, masks allow us to step into another world temporarily, to become someone or something different. But spiritually, masks can represent the facades we often wear to fit into societal norms or to shield our vulnerabilities.

The Bible, in Matthew 23:27, warns against such pretense: “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean.” This verse reminds us of the dangers of valuing outward appearances over inner authenticity.

The Journey of Self-Discovery

Discovering our true identity is a lifelong journey. It requires introspection, courage, and, often, a leap of faith. James 1:23-24 uses the metaphor of a mirror: “Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.” To truly know ourselves, we must reflect upon and act according to God’s word.

Prayer is a powerful tool in our quest for authenticity. It’s a direct line of communication with God, allowing us to seek guidance, express our fears, and celebrate our joys. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

As we strive for authenticity and alignment with Christ, we must remember the gift of grace. We are human, and we will falter. But God’s grace is infinite. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.” This grace allows us to continually strive for authenticity, knowing that we are loved and accepted.

Halloween, with its costumes and masks, can serve as a yearly reminder to reflect on our spiritual journey. It’s an opportunity to shed our daily masks, delve deeper into our relationship with Christ, and embrace the person God created us to be. Let’s celebrate not just our external transformations but our internal ones, guided by the unwavering light of the Bible.

Uncommen Questions: 

  1. In what areas of your life do you feel you wear a “mask,” and how can you work towards embracing your authentic self in alignment with Christ’s teachings?
  2. How can you incorporate regular self-reflection and the teachings of the Bible into your daily routine to ensure you’re living authentically and in line with your spiritual purpose?

The Uncommen Challenge: 

This holiday season, embark on a transformative journey. Drawing inspiration from the Bible, set tangible goals to enhance your roles as a father, husband, or leader. Ephesians 5:25, for instance, provides guidance for husbands: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church.” From Halloween to Thanksgiving, track your progress, celebrate your growth, and express gratitude for the journey.

2 Comments

  1. Scott Earl

    I think of identities as wearing hats, and for me, my identity has worn many hats that change according to the season of life I’m in…but I know it it is important to use the hat rack that is given to me by God. He suggests which hat I should be wearing, but I am the one that needs to choose to wear it.

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  2. Jim Wiebe

    I appreciate the mention of seeking true identity is ongoing. Constantly learning and growing

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