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God’s Word Doesn’t Need Your Filtering

God’s Word Doesn’t Need Your Filtering

Filtering God's Word should never be the goal. One thing I've learned while reading the Bible and hearing God's Word preached is its unchanging truth. What is real about God, and His word two thousand years ago is still accurate today. 1 John 4:1 — "Dear friend, do...

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Tips on Managing Conflict in your Marriage

Tips on Managing Conflict in your Marriage

Conflict Will Come In Your Marriage Managing conflict in your marriage begins by understanding that ll marriages will have conflict. If you don’t, either you live on a tropical island with the earnings from your lottery winnings, or you are dead. Either way, it is not...

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God’s Path For Your Life Can Feel Strange

God’s Path For Your Life Can Feel Strange

Psalm 119:105 — "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path." There is no greater joy than being a father, right next to that is being a husband. God's path for me to those things wasn't traditional. However, that broken path leads to a faith-filled journey...

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God Gave You 2 Ears & 1 Mouth | Listen!

God Gave You 2 Ears & 1 Mouth | Listen!

What is Code Purple?  It's the overlap of blue and pink. It's where men and women interact with each other in a way that may be different than the way they are used to being. The Blue Man shows up to hear the problem, dole out a fix and get back to the game. The Pink...

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Made For Work in the Garden | A Calling

Made For Work in the Garden | A Calling

Genesis 2:15 —  "The LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it." He put Adam in charge of the garden of Eden to work it and keep it. He did this before he even made Eve. When He created Eve, He said in Genesis 2:18, “Then...

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8 Powerful Tips on Listening To Your Wife

8 Powerful Tips on Listening To Your Wife

Listening to your wife is a skill you should take seriously. I am a terrible listener when distracted. If we are in a crowd, the multiple conversations of the group will get my attention. Busy restaurants are difficult for me. If it is a beautiful day outside and the...

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Husbands, Love Your Wives… Like A New Ferrari

Husbands, Love Your Wives… Like A New Ferrari

Loving People Different Than Us There are a lot of jokes about husbands in the marriage relationship. For example, if a man is in the woods, is he still wrong? Another would be, what are the five words that husbands need to know for a successful marriage? The answer...

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Man In Action: A Faithful Husband

Man In Action: A Faithful Husband

How to be a faithful husband can be found clearly in our theme verse for this article. Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Missing In Action - “used to say that a soldier cannot be found after a battle...

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How to Survive A Divorce

How to Survive A Divorce

You thought things were fine. Your marriage was steady. Your kids are fine, your house is nice, you’ve provided for everyone’s needs (or so you thought), and you get along with your wife most of the time. Sure, there’s the blow up once in a while, sex not as often as...

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In The Garden With Adam and Eve

In The Garden With Adam and Eve

Genesis 2:18 "Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” I know men who love to quote Ephesians 5:22-24 to people about their wives submitting to them. PRO TIP: You need to be a man of God to be...

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How to Not Regret What You Say

How to Not Regret What You Say

James 1:19 “Wherefore my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” I suddenly regretted the words that had just left my mouth. My wife and I had just been in a bitter argument and I; being the broken man that I am, had to get the...

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Living In Sync With Your Forever Bride

Living In Sync With Your Forever Bride

Colossians 3:14: “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” I heard a story of a pastor who boarded an airplane and was sitting behind a young married couple. During the flight, they purchased a movie to watch together....

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