Gratitude in Relationships

In our fast-paced lives, it’s easy to overlook the significance of gratitude in relationships. Whether it’s the bonds we share with our family, the connections in friendship, the dynamics of workplace interactions, the love we give and receive in romantic partnerships, or the impact we have on our communities, gratitude plays a pivotal role in nurturing and sustaining these connections. As we explore the depths of gratitude in relationships, we discover timeless lessons from biblical and real-life examples that remind us of the enduring power of saying “thank you.” 

Family: Cherishing Our Roots

We often take our family for granted, thinking they will always be there. But time flies, and before we know it, kids grow up, and older family members may not be around anymore. That’s why it’s important to show gratitude daily. In the Bible, the Prodigal Son story can teach us a lot about this. The son left home, wasting his money and time, but when he returned, his father welcomed him back with open arms. The father’s gratefulness for his son’s return teaches us that family is priceless. So, cherish the time you have with your family and express your thankfulness often.

Luke 15:20-24 ~ “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.'”

Friendships: The Give-and-Take Balance

In friendships, it’s easy to forget the give-and-take balance. Sometimes we’re all take and no give. Remember the story of Ruth and Naomi? Ruth, out of love and gratitude for her mother-in-law Naomi, stayed with her even after they faced terrible loss. Ruth’s famous lines, “Where you go, I will go,” show a deep sense of thankfulness and loyalty. In our friendships, giving back is just as crucial as receiving. Keep that balance, and your friendships will grow stronger.

Ruth 1:16-17 ~ “But Ruth replied, ‘Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.'”

Work Relationships: Teamwork and Gratitude

Work relationships can get complicated too. It’s not just about impressing the boss; it’s about being a good team player. When you work hard and show gratitude to those around you, you set yourself up for success.

Proverbs 22:29 ~, “Do you see someone skilled in their work? They will serve before kings; they will not serve before officials of low rank.” 

Love: Gratitude Keeps the Spark Alive

In love relationships, it’s so easy to fall into a routine and forget to show appreciation. Consider the biblical couple, Priscilla and Aquila. They were not only husband and wife but also ministry partners who supported the Apostle Paul. They were grateful for each other and worked well together, helping to spread early Christian teachings. Show gratitude to your partner not just on special days but every day, and your relationship will be stronger for it.

Acts 181-3:

” After this Paul left Athens and went to Corinth. And he found a Jew named Aquila, a native of Pontus, recently come from Italy with his wife Priscilla because Claudius had commanded all the Jews to leave Rome. And he went to see them, and because he was of the same trade he stayed with them and worked, for they were tentmakers by trade.”

Community: The Bigger Picture

Gratitude in the community matters too. Think of the Good Samaritan, who took care of a stranger in need. He showed gratitude for the life and well-being of others, even those he didn’t know. We should aim to do the same in our communities. Saying thank you to your local firefighter, teacher, or even the mail carrier can make a world of difference.

Luke 10:33-35 ~ “But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him.”

Health: Gratitude Is Good for You

Lastly, gratitude improves your health. Philippians 4:6-7, it says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” The peace that comes from being thankful is not just emotional; it’s physical too. Studies show that grateful people tend to be healthier.

Uncommen Questions:

Have you ever said thank you to a community worker? How did it make you feel?

What is a small thing you’re grateful for today?

Uncommen Challenge: 

Aside from the three acts of gratitude from before, try to notice little things to be thankful for each day. Make a list and look at it whenever you need a mood boost.

Gratitude isn’t a one-time action; it’s a lifestyle. From family to friends, from work to your community, and even to your own well-being, the practice of saying thank you can change your life for the better. Like it says in Psalm 107:1, “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” So start showing gratitude in relationships today and reap the benefits in all areas of your life.