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Making Memories With Your Children

Making Memories With Your Children

And, “I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters,” says the Lord Almighty.  2 Corinthians 6:18. Lessons from Childhood When I was a kid, our parents set the main course for our family. My dad was quiet, maybe one of the least talkative people I...

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Life With A Purpose

Life With A Purpose

“As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart.” Proverbs 27:19. Remembering Tim Lang Tim Lang was a spiritual brother. He was a goof. He was a soldier. A husband. A father. If you remember back in like second grade, you might walk up to a kid you had...

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Taking Care of Your Health

Taking Care of Your Health

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So, glorify God in your body. It was the Spring of 2013. My wife was in the hospital for...

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Family Leadership

Family Leadership

The Carolina Panthers recently hired Frank Reich as their next head coach. I believe he’ll do a great job in Carolina, as he brings proven leadership to the team. While driving into the office recently, his brother Joe (the head football coach at Wingate University in...

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Pathway To Victory

Pathway To Victory

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.” Isaiah 55:8 NIV When my friend Tim Lang was alive, one noticed when he was around you. He was big and goofy. I miss everything about him. One of my favorite stories about him...

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Brothers and Envy

Brothers and Envy

I long for deeper and closer friendships in my life, and I have been grateful for the men who have come into my world. But I often struggle with the deep envy of the same men I would want as a closer brother. I am both drawn to them and their gifts, yet, I am jealous...

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Life Struggles

Life Struggles

“They help each other and say to their companions, “Be strong!” Isaiah 41:6 NIV  How do you handle life struggles? Reaching out to other men who may have experienced that struggle can help you in your circumstances. God wants us to experience peace within our life...

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How to Manage Anger

How to Manage Anger

I get to approach this conversation from two perspectives. The first is that I have been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and personal development coach for the last ten years. I have worked with hundreds of men on anger and how to handle those moments of...

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What’s For Dinner?

What’s For Dinner?

HEBREWS 6:10 “God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them.”  “What’s for dinner?” Your wife cooks dinner every day of the week. How can you help your wife prepare a meal once a...

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UNCOMMEN Challenge: Let’s Get Healthy

UNCOMMEN Challenge: Let’s Get Healthy

If you are a UNCOMMEN member, please ensure you're signed in to view this content. If you aren't a member, please click here to get started. There are probably several reasons women outlive men, and one of them may be that we don’t take care of our health as they do....

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How To Make An Impact In The World

How To Make An Impact In The World

"Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much…" Luke 16:10 NIV. My wife and I were watching TV this past week, and we saw a story on "60 Minutes" about a program called Hope Chicago. It featured a story about a man who decided to change the...

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A Christmas Legacy

A Christmas Legacy

We all have memories of Christmas from our childhood. Some are good and some bad, but they are memories nonetheless. The real question is, did your parents focus on Christ, or was the focus on something else during the Christmas season? My wife and I do a birthday...

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