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Husbands – Dads – Leaders – MIT

We Should Avoid Harsh Words With Our Loved Ones

We Should Avoid Harsh Words With Our Loved Ones

Have you ever been the recipient ever or the deliverer of harsh words? I was considering this recently. "Hurry up!" my mom yelled. We were running late as usual. 7th grade was tough enough, but add in being late almost every morning, and it made it almost...

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How to Lead Your Family Spiritually Into The Unknown

How to Lead Your Family Spiritually Into The Unknown

A dad leads his family, but what if he leads them to a very unfamiliar, unknown place? Today, we'll consider how to lead your family spiritually. "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress...

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How to Lead Your Family In Every Circumstance

How to Lead Your Family In Every Circumstance

How to lead your family? The questions can be taken many ways, but it reminds me of something I watched recently. My wife and I recently watched the movie "Apollo 13". That is the "Houston, we have a problem" mission designed to put a man on the moon. The actual story...

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Pray Bold Prayers For Your Family, Dad

Pray Bold Prayers For Your Family, Dad

Do you pray bold prayers as the spiritual leader of your household? Most husbands and fathers don't. In the ninth chapter of Mark, we read the story of Jesus healing a boy with an unclean spirit. The boy's father had already asked Jesus' disciples to heal his son, but...

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Fathers, Do Not Provoke Your Children

Fathers, Do Not Provoke Your Children

Provoke… The word itself sounds exhausting. Ephesians 6:4 — "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."   I Provoke My Children When I read this verse, I thought maybe Paul meant to tell...

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How Can I Reflect God?

How Can I Reflect God?

What scares me? Before accepting my current position as the senior pastor of a small church, I had the opportunity to serve in the United States Marine Corps for a little over eight years. During that time, I had the privilege of deploying to Okinawa, Japan, and the...

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Prioritize Relationship Over Opinions

Prioritize Relationship Over Opinions

I have learned a lot of valuable lessons in my life. Some of the best came the hard way. But one of the best lessons I've learned is being right is not always RIGHT! Prioritize relationship over opinions! “How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in...

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How You Can Be The Best Grandpa

How You Can Be The Best Grandpa

What do I owe my grandchildren? Deuteronomy 4:9. Notice the 'no-nonsense' tone in these words from Moses – take care, use diligence, don't be forgetful, or get sidetracked. These indicate the need for a deliberate and purposeful plan for us as husbands/dads/grandpas....

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Overprotective Parenting Habits

Overprotective Parenting Habits

This is what overprotective parenting habits are doing to your child! A parent's duty to a child is to give them love, to care for them, and to keep them safe. However, parents in trying to keep kids safe, often go to extreme lengths. This duty can have detrimental...

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Talk With Your Children Individually

Talk With Your Children Individually

My daughter (15) is going through a tough time at school. She fancies a boy but is often at odds with him, and has moved friendship groups to be with the "cool girls." She hasn't entirely burned her bridges with her old friends, but it's a trying time for her and us...

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